When I became a mother in 2016, I remember holding my sweet baby, filled with so much love and gratitude. I told myself I was going to love and care deeply for this little precious soul in my arms. Well-meaning family members would however assert that I leave my baby to cry (and not pick him up), so as to not "coddle" him, or let him "manipulate" me.

Their "advice" went against my personal (or motherly if you will) instinct.

I knew there had to be a better way — so I dived deep into research, courses, and training. What began as late-night studying (sleep-deprived, between nursing sessions) became an all-consuming passion to understand neuroscience, attachment theory, and trauma-informed parenting.

But here's what I discovered: It wasn't just about learning the tools.

As a highly sensitive mum raising a highly sensitive, strong-willed child, I learnt through my lived experience that peaceful parenting isn't about perfection — it's about understanding what's happening beneath your child's behaviours, healing your own nervous system, and building connection that withstands even the hardest moments.

I've navigated explosive meltdowns, sensory overload, power struggles, and family conflict. I've lived with differing values and parenting approaches under one roof. I've had ruptures — many ruptures — and I've learnt that repair is what transforms relationships.

Today, my sweet, spirited son and I share a close, deep bond that grows stronger with each challenge we navigate together. He's learning and thriving — gradually developing resilience, emotional intelligence, and genuine confidence.

The best part? I find myself growing and thriving alongside him. Not perfect, but importantly, progressing — likewise for my child.

This transformation is what I'm passionate about creating for you and your family.